Dealing with differences in a Relationship
Faisal and Ghazala have been married for 12 years and have generally had a happy and fulfilling relationship. However, there have been a few instances where Faisal has disrespected or insulted Ghazala's choices, causing her to feel hurt and frustrated. In Islam, it is important for both husband and wife to show respect and kindness towards each other, as emphasized in the Qur'an: "And among His signs is this: that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may find tranquillity in them, and He has put love and mercy between your hearts" (30:21). One day, after Faisal makes a snide comment about Ghazala's decision to pursue a degree, Ghazala decides to address the issue. She sits down with Faisal and begins the conversation. Ghazala: "Faisal, there is something that I need to discuss with you that has been weighing on my mind. I feel like you have been disrespecting my choices lately, and it has been really hurtful. Could we discuss this?"